Wedding? in 2009?

So my mom keeps telling me that almost everyone in my family has already bought their suit or dress for my wedding. Even though I don't know what city I am getting married in or when.

Somehow in some way my mom has gotten enthusiastic about this. Which is weird because til now all she said was that this was stupid, that it was unnecessary and that no one would go to it. Mommy dearest. ;> It may also be that she is trying to make up for (see previous post) somethings that happened recently but...whatever. I mean we have to believe whatever hurts the least, right?
Either way, mom kept asking me how many people would stay at the hotel if we did the wedding in Puerto Plata. And I said, well no one in the family lives in Puerto Plata, theres no relative, theres no "so and so's" house to stay at so I would guess all 80-100 guests would be expected to stay in the same hotel right? And thats when she said,"80 of us in one hotel? Wow that is going to be a party!"
So I am ordering invitations, I am emailing people for their addresses. I found 4 different invitations I fell in love with and I ordered samples. I am supposed to go pick up my wedding dress in 2 weeks. I can't wait to hang out in Pasadena.
So I guess this is going to happen sometime this year, come hell or highwater. All I want from this is to see Carlos looking at me at the altar right before we kiss. Wow I can't believe I am getting married by the church! That is some permanent stuff....